Saturday, January 20, 2007
Monday, January 15, 2007
Meet to cheat
Yesterday, I was reading this article and I couldn't help but pity the valueless world we happen to be living in. It regards some internet-based agencies that help married people, who for some reason or another are unhappy in their marriage, to find a sexual partner who is in the same situation as them. The agency also provides an alibi for the person involved so as not to get caught!
Case 1: a man found out that his wife was cheating on him. As a revenge he set out to date women in this way. In this case hi5 to you man! May you have as many women in a day as your supposedly wife will have men in her entire lifetime. The only drawback is that you may be a complice in the deterioration of someonelse's marriage.
Case 2: a woman is unhappy in her marriage because her husband is so indulged in his work that they hadnt have sex for the last 10 years. Here I blame the husband. Persons who know that they dont have time for something should not engage someone else in this something with them. The only drawback is as above.
Case 3: a man goes to such agencies because his wife has developed an illness and, without her having an option she could not be the wife she used to be. The man states that by having sexual relationships with other women he is learning how to be a better husband for his wife. Omg! How farther than this egoism can possibly go? Have we forgotten that when we engage in a relationship (of any kind) with someone, we are doing this for the better and for the worse? I dont think we've forgotten. It's just a matter of us running away from our responsibilities. As if he would have been a happy man if he had to be the one who fell ill and his wife did this to him? I wonder what's next....next time my mother feels sick I try to find another mother for the day or what?
The mentality of me, myself and I, which apparently engulfs most people, really disgusts me; especially so when at the end of the day we all depend on one another. Oh values where are you? Down the drain I have just realized. Thank god that most of the time I'm surrounded with those few people that still have a notion that values once existed.
Case 1: a man found out that his wife was cheating on him. As a revenge he set out to date women in this way. In this case hi5 to you man! May you have as many women in a day as your supposedly wife will have men in her entire lifetime. The only drawback is that you may be a complice in the deterioration of someonelse's marriage.
Case 2: a woman is unhappy in her marriage because her husband is so indulged in his work that they hadnt have sex for the last 10 years. Here I blame the husband. Persons who know that they dont have time for something should not engage someone else in this something with them. The only drawback is as above.
Case 3: a man goes to such agencies because his wife has developed an illness and, without her having an option she could not be the wife she used to be. The man states that by having sexual relationships with other women he is learning how to be a better husband for his wife. Omg! How farther than this egoism can possibly go? Have we forgotten that when we engage in a relationship (of any kind) with someone, we are doing this for the better and for the worse? I dont think we've forgotten. It's just a matter of us running away from our responsibilities. As if he would have been a happy man if he had to be the one who fell ill and his wife did this to him? I wonder what's next....next time my mother feels sick I try to find another mother for the day or what?
The mentality of me, myself and I, which apparently engulfs most people, really disgusts me; especially so when at the end of the day we all depend on one another. Oh values where are you? Down the drain I have just realized. Thank god that most of the time I'm surrounded with those few people that still have a notion that values once existed.
Sunday, January 07, 2007
End of year 2006
IN THE PAST YEAR
Have you had any relationships this year? yep, the 3rd yr in a row
Been to church? for a wedding perhaps but i dont remember
Cried? is there really a need to ask? yeah i did
Been on a diet? nope...gimme more food plz
Went Camping? yeap 2 times in Wales
Bought something(s)? of course...my cowboy boots was the best deal
Met someone special? it didnt turn out that special and i wish i never met them
Gone Snowboarding? yeah...Malta's covered with snow right now
Whom are you thinking about right now? exams...exams....have i mentioned exams?
Hugged someone? yep :)
Slept in someone elses bed? aha... in fact i cant even see baksu's bed that i dont get under the covers
Drank any alchohol? yep. That wouldnt have been a year if i didnt
Loaned out money? lol! Me lending money?? Usually it's the other way round
Gotten in a car accident? nope thank god
Last Person you hugged? Baksu
Last Person to call you? Mum i think
Who was the last person you danced with? group of friends actually
Who did you last yell at? mum for a change
TEN FACTS
Hometown?Kirkop
Natural hair color? light brown
Initials? BF...break fast
Hair style? long, curly most of the time buq
Eye color: dark brown almost black
Mood: feeling like doing nothing
Where would you rather be? playing a pc game with baks
Last thing you drank? orange juice
TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE:
Have you ever been in love: yes
Do you believe in love? yeah
Why did your LAST relationship fail? i just preferred the friends way of life
Have you ever been heartbroken: yes
Have you ever broken someone's heart: yeah more than once and i feel bad about it
Have you ever fallen for your best friend? no friends are friends for me
Have you ever loved someone but never told them? i dont remember actually but i dont think so.I prefer to speak my mind
Are you afraid of committment? Not really
Have you had more than 5 different serious relationships in your life? Nope, 1 is more than enough lol
5 EMOTIONS
Are you missing someone right now? Yeah, 2 actually
Are you happy? Could be better
Are you eating something right now? No but soon lol
Do you like someone right now? yep my 1 and only
Friday, January 05, 2007
It breaks my heart
Yeah it does. It really hurts when 2 friends of yours break up after a relationship of 8 years. It hurts even more when after a year that they are no longer together they chat as they are the bestest of best friends. In fact, they know each other like no one could ever dream of getting to know any one of them. It tears your heart wide open when you see him mentioning her in his blog with 'her' in big capital letters or with a lot of emphasis. When playing truth or drink (another form of truth or dare) he was asked in which period of life would he return if he had the possibility to choose. His answer: first year with HER. She is less emotional than him but since their break-up she opened up more. She couldnt control her tears before his & her departures to different foreign lands and to the lyrics "goodbye my lover, goodbye my friend". I wonder what keeps them apart while there's still such a strong bond between them?
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
A day dedicated to us
Yep we needed this day alone together Baks...me & you, you & me. The last days of 2006 were not quite what one would wish for. Although things were already settled between us we didn't have the desired enough time to just concentrate on us, away from work, university, good friends and BAD friends. And this was it: the 2 nd January, just you and me.
The choice of location was excellent. I really loved those clay cliffs, green countryside and spectacular beach. I can't complain on those short pauses for kisses and hugs neither :) It's all a girl could wish for I must admit. And you gave it to me. I'm so proud, grateful and yeah...happy...after such a long time.
For all this and much more I'd like to thank you. You don't know how much I appreciate this and every other little insignificant detail (buying me chocolate while at the ladies) because these mean the world to me. I'd like also to let you know that I regret the moment when I got angry at you because I was so afraid to follow that path. For a split of a second I kind of forgot that nothing is impossible when I'm with you. In fact, nothing is because hand in hand we did make it!
Baks, I love you dearly...more than words can actually say. Only 1 thing was missing yesterday. I'm not blaming you; it's because things came the way they did. But I'm sure we'll compensate for it tonight ;)
The choice of location was excellent. I really loved those clay cliffs, green countryside and spectacular beach. I can't complain on those short pauses for kisses and hugs neither :) It's all a girl could wish for I must admit. And you gave it to me. I'm so proud, grateful and yeah...happy...after such a long time.
For all this and much more I'd like to thank you. You don't know how much I appreciate this and every other little insignificant detail (buying me chocolate while at the ladies) because these mean the world to me. I'd like also to let you know that I regret the moment when I got angry at you because I was so afraid to follow that path. For a split of a second I kind of forgot that nothing is impossible when I'm with you. In fact, nothing is because hand in hand we did make it!
Baks, I love you dearly...more than words can actually say. Only 1 thing was missing yesterday. I'm not blaming you; it's because things came the way they did. But I'm sure we'll compensate for it tonight ;)
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